One common fear that looms is the concern that divorce will irrevocably shape and define our identity. Let me reassure you that your divorce does not define you. Nothing is further from the truth.
You are more than your relationship status. This situation is part of your story but doesn't define the rest of the narrative.
And here's where you can choose how to rewrite the story.
You can use this significant situational change as a new chapter filled with opportunities for self-discovery, growth, and evolution. You can rediscover who you are, what you value, and what brings you joy.
When you tackle divorce head-on and become the "boss" of the process, you'll uncover your strengths and resilience. I'm not suggesting you become a tyrant in the situation. I'm telling you to learn what you need to know and go about this with your emotions in control and your family's best interests front and center. When you see yourself in this light, you'll be forever changed.
You may feel isolated when you're divorcing. But remember, you have friends, family, support groups, and people like me who care deeply about your well-being. Let us listen and lend a helping hand. Your relationships with people outside your marriage will affirm you're more than divorced!
Whether you choose to divorce or the choice was made for you, reclaim your power and autonomy. Chances are you've been settling, hiding, doing whatever is needed to keep the peace. You now get to live authentically. Embrace your freedom.
This is a fundamental truth: You're worthy of everything good in life, regardless of marital status. Don't let a legal process or relationship status diminish your worth.